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Troubled brother

A muslim brother married a convert women. Well, to be honest,, she converted islam before nikkah with this brother. They were together(married) for abt 2 yrs. Now his wife informed him that she no is no longer a muslim. She also told him that she has started eating pork. According to the local imam, nikkah is void. This muslim brother needs to wait for 3 mths -in hope that may be his wife will change her mind (which is almost impossible). She lives with her parents who are non muslims. In fact it was mostly their influence that resulted in such a disaster. This brother is extremely upset. He has a daughter who is looked after by his wife's mother. He hardly gets to see her as his job involves lots of travelling to overseas. Furthermore, his inlaws don't want him to see the little girl much. He feels so helpless. He is mentally quite disturbed. Quite confused. He was even admitted to hospital for hypertension. Although, because of this incident he has started praying 5 times etc (before he was not that religious), he feels Allah has abandoned him. He think Allah hates him and is punishing him this way.

We have all tried utmost best to comfort him, prayed for him etc. Nothing seems to be working. Really don't know what to do.