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Will the lovers of this World unite in the Aakhirah?

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Last year, a girl of my class fell in love with me and she expressed her feelings to me and consequently I fell in love with her as well. We started having a relationship and were madly in love with each other but in the mean time by the end of the year we had a HUGE fight. We were really great friends before falling in love. Our friendship was very different from the kind of friendship boys and girls usually have. We use to respect each other a lot and we didn't even realize when this respect changed into love. The way both of us behaved during the fight, we never in our wildest imaginations thought that we could have a conversation in that tone. But things became real ugly. I was deep in grief and much stressed and so I did Istikhara to see if this she's the one for me and Alhamdulillah Allah gave me the result the very next day itself and the result was NEGATIVE. But even after that I couldn't let her go. Though we were fighting everyday like wild beasts, we won't let each other go and finally there came a time when I recognized that this relationship is hurting me in every way (mostly spiritually) so with all my might and inconceivable strength I broke up with her. The next day she was gonna fly out of the country to stay with her parents. Eventually we couldn't see each other's faces for two months but meanwhile we were in touch through email and chatting. I missed her a lot after the break-up and she was in a worse situation than me. We realized during those two months that we really really really love one another and can't live without each other in our lives but again we had an awesomely terrible fight one day in those two months and later that night she did Istikhara and HER RESULT WAS ALSO NEGATIVE.

My problem starts here. Even though we gave enough reasons to hate each other, we couldn't. Though the Istikhara results showed us Allah's will but destiny never allows us to stay apart. One way or the other, we keep crossing our ways. We still love each other very much though we don't intend to marry. Alhamdulillah! Alhamdulillah! Both of us are pious Muslims and we love Allah and do not wish to rebel against him by going ahead with this marriage. So its quite clear that she will marry some other guy and I'll be marrying someone else. From the past few days, we've been wondering about our marriage in the Aakhirah (Inshallah) if possible. So what I want to know is this :

We love each other like crazy but aren't gonna marry for we don't intend to go against Allah so can we expect to get married in the Aakhirah (Inshallah)? Though we'll get married to different people in this world Inshallah but can the two of us hope that Allah will unite us in the next world (Inshallah) ???

Alhamdulillah, having this optimism towards our union in the Aakhirah (Inshallah) has been really helpful and both of us are happy. I just want to know if having this kind of hope is allowed in Islam. All kinds of advice is welcome. Don't give advice like maintain distance, don't talk to each other, don't see each others faces etc etc... because we've tried every thing we could think of to let go of each other but ultimately we came back to each other. Please help.