should I disobey my mother??

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I am stuck in an awkward situation. My mum and aunt (dads sister) have never really got on. I have always tried to keep out of the way and let them do whatever.
My aunty has moved from Germany to the UK and is insisting I go to spend some time with her inthe holidays. I really want to go but my mum clearly told me today she doesn't want me to go.
I think she's being unfair. I am married and old enough to make my own choices and personally I don't like to break family ties.
If I don't go not only will my aunt get upset but so will my dad. If I do go my mum will get angry as she thinks it's only to spite her that my aunt invited me. I am also scared I may commit a sin if I don't listen to my mum. :muddlehea


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