Speak the Truth

assalamalikum all

I am sure many of us know the saying of thr Prophet pbuh

Speak the truth even if it goes against your own selves.

Its regarding proposals, where im gettin rejected for bein too honestabout my situation,

My debts , and couple of my brothers have some addictions,

One doesnt live with us, And the other you will barely see 10 min in the day.

So i have probs in fam, but you dont really see em if you know what i mean



So Question, Do i or should i reveal everything about me and my family, even if i know it will as drastic effects on me getting married