Assalaamu alaykum,
My problem is so silly so I don't even know if I've titled it right. Basically, I am in the UK and my family is ****d in another country and one of them (my uncle) seems to be really angry at me. He is in his twenties too (so fairly young). I don't know what I did. I have tried facebook messaging him, emailing him, asking my aunt to talk to him. His wife (who I am obviously not directly related to) has been the same to me. I am just really confused as to what's going on and worry about it a lot since I understand that it is a sin to not be talking to your family members and other brothers/sisters due to anger and stuff. The only explanation I could come up with was that in the past, I used to have two facebook accounts and he got a bit funny with me when he found out I had two but he wasn't friends with me on both accounts. Long story but anyway, I didn't think it was a big deal. But I mean, I find it really difficult to believe that a grown man, with a recent baby (subhaanAllah) of his own, can be so funny about something as trivial as a facebook account. I mean, I honestly don't know what to do. I have tried contacting him and I have apologised to him and asked him to let me know what he's angry about but he's just not responding and yet I know from others that he has been online and has probably seen the 3/4 messages and my email too.
I constantly feel like I am committing a sin by not talking to my family member :( I don't know what to do about it. I am going to ask my mother who is back home too to try and talk to him (it's her half brother). But I have a feeling that will make it worse. What should I do? Am I committing a sin or insha Allah, is there nothing more I can do? I have apologised for whatever I might have done.


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